The spirit of spirituality

A day before, one of the news channels covered the story of a highly educated young sanyasi (recluse) returning home due to pressure from family and society. I do not intend to pass any judgment on the personal issue of somebody but just wish to share my impression about the subtleties of the words ‘spirituality’ and ‘sanyasa’.

I heard one of the saints saying that every man has three kinds of lives. First is the social life which requires us to selflessly serve family and society because we owe them a lot since our birth. Next is the personal life that we work for our own interests and finally it is the spiritual life through which we seek the connection with our source within. The one who is able to balance these three roles is considered to be a true devotee. It is very easy to dictate these terms and probably even to start with but there is a need of unflinching faith and devotion to carry on without demeaning any of the three.

Spirituality instills purity in our worldly dealings. As we make progress in knowing our inner realm, the perspective for the outer existence grows clear. A spiritually awakened person humbly consumes himself for the sake of others, yet retains no feeling of being the doer which implies that he renounces the fruits of his actions but not the actions. This has been called as the genuine sansaya i.e. the renunciation in mentality and not just physical living. The sacred verses of Bhagwad Gita explain it thoroughly. The real knowledge enables the freedom from shackles of undue attachment with things, people and actions. Thus he remains in the world, yet not of the world (मेले में अकेला, अकेले में मेला).

There are times when a seeker may feel tempted to escape from the atmosphere which is not so favorable for his spiritual pursuit. The mystics in Christanity call it a ‘Dark Night’ for the soul and Hindus know it as ‘Adhyatmik Pariksha’ (spiritual test). This period of trial calls for unconditional submission to God’s will and cheerfully accepting whatever comes in the way. I would like to quote here an analogy comparing a baby monkey and a baby cat. For the monkeys, it is wholly upon the little child to clasp its mother tightly while she jumps from one place to another. On the contrary the cats take the responsibility of holding their kids softly in their mouths while carrying them. Unlike infants, we cannot be sure of our grip on God. So we have to be like kittens solely depending upon His grace to keep us close to Him. It is His work to lead us ahead once we have surrendered. Eventually our perseverance and patience make us experience how lovingly He carries us through the adversities. This is the spirit of spirituality which is very simple to preach and equally subtle to practise.


  1. Oh wow! This is WONDERFUL. I was so thrilled to read this. Y own path at the moment is the Dark Night of the Soul. For me, it is the !u inoys Darkness. A beautiful darkness with many gems to be found within it, but terribly painful. I did not know the Hi du equivalent, but am really interested to hear of it. Thankyou for this lovely

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      1. Yes, that is it. It is a bit like a purging pricess so that in the end you let go of alk that does not real,y matrer in life, and only hold onto those things that do matter. It throws some people off balance and so oreciputates a dark nught within them. Something like a very serious lufe threatening illness can do it, or a duvorce, or something like that. It is really interesting

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  2. Nice article. I lived in India for 4 years doing some Seva, practising spiritual things like meditation, Omkaram etc… It’s a pity I forgot how to read Sanskrit, Devanagari, it’s more than 10 years now… But I love doing some videos on spirituality – if you don’t mind, check it out, please 🙂

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  3. Depends upon person to person. For a believer God is certainly the greatest because God is the creator of all including our parents. But that does not mean showing less respect to one’s parents. Also, parents and children can be unjust to each other at times but not God. As per the definition of God in major religions God is never unjust, not in the least way.

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    1. Yes it all varies from person to person…Spirituality helps us to enhance our inner strength so that we can carry on with our worldly endeavours effortlessly and goodness in our actions becomes deeply embedded…
      Thanku for stopping by😊🙏🏼

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